Lost the HVAC system

I broke up with our boyfriend of multiple years about a month ago. It was really difficult for both of us, although I think that in the end it will be a great thing. I recently have been missing him a lot more than I did in the beginning and I wish I could just be his friend. However, I suppose this is not what he wants. He wants to get back together with myself and others and I suppose that seeing him again would just be a selfish choice. Last week, I had to call him because the filter on our air conditioner needed to be changed and he was the one that used to do that for me. I knew that I could change our own air conditioner filter, although I was hoping he could just explain how to do it over the cellphone. Well he took this as his option to get back together and gave to come over, change the air conditioner filter and even inspect our Heating, Ventilation, and A/C component to make sure everything was working respectfully. I knew that if he came over he would expect for us to be together again, although I suppose better than that, and for now I am going to learn how to change our air conditioner filter by myself and just have our local Heating, Ventilation, and A/C supplier come over to inspect our machine. I hope that his feelings won’t be hurt, although I have to make the best option for myself and others right now! I hope he can just understand our decision and not get upset.

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