I broke up with my boyfriend of two years about a month ago. It was really hard for both of us, but I think that in the end it will be a good thing. I recently have been missing him a lot more than I did in the beginning and I wish I could just be his friend. However, I know this is not what he wants. He wants to get back together with me and I know that seeing him again would just be a selfish choice. Last week, I had to call him because the filter on my air conditioner needed to be changed and he was the one that used to do that for me. I knew that I could change my own air conditioner filter, but I was hoping he could just explain how to do it over the phone. Well he took this as his chance to get back together and offered to come over, change the air conditioner filter and even inspect my HVAC unit to make sure everything was working properly. I knew that if he came over he would expect for us to be together again, but I know better than that. For now I am going to learn how to change my air conditioner filter by myself and just have my local HVAC company come over to inspect my machine. I hope that his feelings won’t be hurt, but I have to make the best choice for me right now! I hope he can just understand my decision and not get upset.